When asked how we are doing, a standard response is “I’m fine,” often accompanied by a smile. The brain wants what we feel and believe to line up, so it will go along with the smile to avoid something called cognitive dissonance. Behavioral scientist Matt Wallaert says that this “grin and bear it” strategy is fine in some situations but insufficient for what we are facing now.
“No amount of cognitive dissonance can overwhelm the entirely rational fear we all feel in the face of a global pandemic.
— Matt Wallaert
Simply putting on a happy face isn’t the right answer – but how do we maintain positivity in the midst of so much uncertainty? How can we manage our anxiety and change our outlook?