Show Yourself Some Compassion

Self-compassion helps us treat ourselves with the same kindness and caring as we would show to others. If a friend said, "I am so sick of all these restrictions and not being able to go out," you would never say, "Oh, just get over it and be happy for what you've got." Never! Yet that is what we tell ourselves, hoping to shore up our emotions with a stiff upper lip. The problem is, it doesn't work. We end up judging and criticizing ourselves, feeling worse as a result.

Let's Rethink Aging

For more than five thousand years, "old" was defined as between 60 and 70 years of age. With people living longer, it means that many of us will spend more time in elderhood than childhood. Sadly, at a time when we are living longer than before, we've made old age into a disease -- a condition to be denigrated and denied.

Dr. Louise Aronson, physician and award-winning author, says it's time to rethink aging in America.

Smart Bite: Are You at Risk for Eye Disease?

We depend on our eyes for nearly every aspect of daily life, yet increasing age can result in changes to our eye health and vision. In fact, visual impairment is the most common sensory problem of older adults. Changes in the eye physiology can cause visual problems like near focusing (presbyopia) to more serious conditions such as floaters, cataracts, dry eye, and macular degeneration.

Smart Bite: I Forgot! (And How to Remember)

Last week I was dashing out of the house to go on a hike at a nearby park. I got in my car, realized I had forgotten my water bottle, and went inside to retrieve it. Then I decided I wanted a different hiking hat and ran upstairs. When I finally made it back to my car — voila! — no car keys. I searched for 20 minutes until I found them in the refrigerator next to the butter. When I was finally ready to leave, I saw our new neighbors standing in their driveway. They introduced themselves, but I promptly forgot their names before they said their socially distanced goodbyes.

Smart Bite: Kick the Coronacoaster

When asked how we are doing, a standard response is “I’m fine,” often accompanied by a smile. The brain wants what we feel and believe to line up, so it will go along with the smile to avoid something called cognitive dissonance. Behavioral scientist Matt Wallaert says that this “grin and bear it” strategy is fine in some situations but insufficient for what we are facing now.

“No amount of cognitive dissonance can overwhelm the entirely rational fear we all feel in the face of a global pandemic.

— Matt Wallaert

Simply putting on a happy face isn’t the right answer – but how do we maintain positivity in the midst of so much uncertainty? How can we manage our anxiety and change our outlook?