Smart Bite: Willpower is Overrated

Willpower is more than mind over matter. It is a complex biological and psychological response, which is also true of the stress response. While stress helps us deal with external pressures, willpower helps us deal with internal conflict. Health psychologist Kelly McGonigal calls it the “pause and plan” response vs. “fight or flight.” Willpower puts the body into a calmer state and sends signals to the prefrontal cortex of the brain, allowing us to make better decisions.

Smart Bite: The Joy of Music

Music has an amazing ability to lift our spirits by releasing the pleasure-related neurotransmitter dopamine as we listen. It is also a powerful way to evoke memory. Music may jog an explicit memory such as “where was I that summer when this song was popular?” but it also summons implicit memories. These are more reactive, emotional memories that occur outside of consciousness.

Show Yourself Some Compassion

Self-compassion helps us treat ourselves with the same kindness and caring as we would show to others. If a friend said, "I am so sick of all these restrictions and not being able to go out," you would never say, "Oh, just get over it and be happy for what you've got." Never! Yet that is what we tell ourselves, hoping to shore up our emotions with a stiff upper lip. The problem is, it doesn't work. We end up judging and criticizing ourselves, feeling worse as a result.

Let's Rethink Aging

For more than five thousand years, "old" was defined as between 60 and 70 years of age. With people living longer, it means that many of us will spend more time in elderhood than childhood. Sadly, at a time when we are living longer than before, we've made old age into a disease -- a condition to be denigrated and denied.

Dr. Louise Aronson, physician and award-winning author, says it's time to rethink aging in America.

Smart Bite: Are You at Risk for Eye Disease?

We depend on our eyes for nearly every aspect of daily life, yet increasing age can result in changes to our eye health and vision. In fact, visual impairment is the most common sensory problem of older adults. Changes in the eye physiology can cause visual problems like near focusing (presbyopia) to more serious conditions such as floaters, cataracts, dry eye, and macular degeneration.

Smart Bite: I Forgot! (And How to Remember)

Last week I was dashing out of the house to go on a hike at a nearby park. I got in my car, realized I had forgotten my water bottle, and went inside to retrieve it. Then I decided I wanted a different hiking hat and ran upstairs. When I finally made it back to my car — voila! — no car keys. I searched for 20 minutes until I found them in the refrigerator next to the butter. When I was finally ready to leave, I saw our new neighbors standing in their driveway. They introduced themselves, but I promptly forgot their names before they said their socially distanced goodbyes.