Smart Bite: The Latest Trend in Self-Care

Self-care is more important than ever, as our normal routines are still disrupted a year after the outbreak of a global pandemic. Even though vaccines are rolling out, many older adults still reside in relative isolation. Working moms and dads are commuting from their bedroom to the kitchen office, and kids hunch over computers for hours each day. Whether we are old or young, we need to do something for our physical and emotional well-being.

Smart Bite: Extend Yourself to Improve Your Spine

Since our first shelter-in-place orders back in March, 2020, we have spent a great deal more time in one position: sitting. This includes hours hunched over the computer in lieu of face-to-face visits or meetings in a position that resembles a kidney bean. Combine this “hunching over electronic devices” with the normal wear and tear that our spine undergoes due to age, and we have a perfect storm that leads to back pain, leg pain when standing or walking, and even loss of height.

Smart Bite: Willpower is Overrated

Willpower is more than mind over matter. It is a complex biological and psychological response, which is also true of the stress response. While stress helps us deal with external pressures, willpower helps us deal with internal conflict. Health psychologist Kelly McGonigal calls it the “pause and plan” response vs. “fight or flight.” Willpower puts the body into a calmer state and sends signals to the prefrontal cortex of the brain, allowing us to make better decisions.

Smart Bite: The Joy of Music

Music has an amazing ability to lift our spirits by releasing the pleasure-related neurotransmitter dopamine as we listen. It is also a powerful way to evoke memory. Music may jog an explicit memory such as “where was I that summer when this song was popular?” but it also summons implicit memories. These are more reactive, emotional memories that occur outside of consciousness.

Show Yourself Some Compassion

Self-compassion helps us treat ourselves with the same kindness and caring as we would show to others. If a friend said, "I am so sick of all these restrictions and not being able to go out," you would never say, "Oh, just get over it and be happy for what you've got." Never! Yet that is what we tell ourselves, hoping to shore up our emotions with a stiff upper lip. The problem is, it doesn't work. We end up judging and criticizing ourselves, feeling worse as a result.

Let's Rethink Aging

For more than five thousand years, "old" was defined as between 60 and 70 years of age. With people living longer, it means that many of us will spend more time in elderhood than childhood. Sadly, at a time when we are living longer than before, we've made old age into a disease -- a condition to be denigrated and denied.

Dr. Louise Aronson, physician and award-winning author, says it's time to rethink aging in America.